Why is everyone running
By: Rabbi Shafier,
One of the great ironies of modern times is that man isn't happy.
Throughout almost every strata of society and every segement what you
find is that people seem to be down, stressed, pushed to the limits and
running on empty
If we were to describe our wealth to people of a different generation,
they probably wouldn't would believe us. Kings in prior times didn't
enjoy the luxuries that we do. The reality is that we are wealthy beyond
belief. We enjoy comforts and abundance that are historically
unprecedented. And it's not just the extremely affluent. The average
tax-paying citizen of today lives in opulence and splendor that previous
generations couldn't dream about.
We Have Arrived - Are We Happy?
In short, we are wealthy beyond belief. We have riches that far, far
exceed our needs. As a society, as a nation, and as individuals, we
enjoy prosperity and abundance. We benefit from creature comforts that
were unthinkable a generation ago. Everything is so readily available,
so accessible, so easy. And so I have one question: now that we have so
much, are we happy?
For centuries, all that man desired was freedom from tyranny and a
homeland where he could enjoy liberty and safety. Armies went to war for
it, entire generations sacrificed all that they had for it, and we now
have it. We are there. We have finally arrived. Living in a free society
with almost unlimited opportunity, we are easily able to find sustenance
and enjoy unheard of wealth; we have it all. But are we happy? Now that
we are there, is it all that we thought it was? Is this the dream that
we were seeking? Are we any happier today than our ancestors in previous
Drinking When You Are Thirsty
In a memoir written many years ago, a
teenager describes what life was like for him growing up in the 1920's
in the deep South. Hunger was a part of life; it was just a given. He
got up in the morning hungry, and went to bed even hungrier. Often, he
left home in the morning without eating breakfast, because there was no
food in the house - literally nothing to eat.
One morning while walking to
work, he passed a neighbor's house and noticed that the garden hose was
left out. He turned on the spigot and began drinking and drinking until
he filled his belly, hoping to stop the hunger pangs. It worked. His
stomach no longer grumbled for food...till the water passed. Then he was
left hungrier than before.
For many people, that is life. They feel
emptiness inside, a longing for something. What it is they can't quite
tell you, but it gives them no rest. They try to fill it with money and
honor, possessions and luxuries, all the while hoping it will satisfy
that void inside.
But it doesn't work. For a while they
are distracted, for a moment their attention is diverted, but then the
quiet time comes again, and they find themselves as empty as before. And
the worst part is that for the life of them, they can't figure out why.
"I have so much, yet I feel so poor! What's wrong with me? What's wrong
with life?" The problem is that they are trying to fill their souls with
things that sparkle and shine, but are as fleeting as fireworks on the
fourth of July.
The nishamah within me isn't
satisfied and can't be satisfied with anything so cheap, so she calls
out for more. Instead of heeding her call, many people try to fill that
vacuum with more glitter and gold. But the nishamah isn't
impressed. So while they fill their bellies for a time and forget their
pain, that gnawing hunger comes back to haunt them even more acutely
I Need More
"But what's wrong? What am I missing? I
thought I had it all. I guess I just need more." Then in a headlong rush
to quell that vacant feeling inside, they pursue careers and promotions,
honor and prestige, acquisitions and hobbies, distraction after
distraction, running, running, running -
anything, just to not think about the emptiness inside. From cars to
homes, planes to cruises. Buy a boat, then a yacht. Next a Rolex, then a
Rembrandt. Luxuries, parties, extravaganzas. . . anything, anything to
fill that void inside. But it never works. They wake up in the middle of
the night and mouth the words, "There has to be more to life than
There is. There is so much more. But if
man doesn't search for it, he won't find it. And if he doesn't find it,
he is destined to be miserable. To achieve happiness and peace of mind,
man has to know that he has a soul, and then he has to know what it
needs to be satisfied.
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